What’s the line between being proactive in looking for a godly husband and being desperate? I don’t want to be desperate. Answer: The line is easy to determine. If you’re willing to rebel against God and sin to get into a relationship, then you’re desperate. You’re also making an idol out of marriage if you want it more than you want to obey God. But if you’re very proactive in…
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Some wise people recommend writing a Future Husband List about the qualities you want in a Christian husband, and some others just as wise recommend against it. I can see the pros and cons of each position, but as someone who LOVES journaling it was natural for me to write such a list when I was single. I find that making a list is valuable if you focus on internal…
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How She Changed Her Dating Strategy and Found Her Husband
In this interview I’ll address: (1) what caused my season of unwanted singleness to last so long (2) what made me revolutionize my approach to finding love (3) how did I find, date, and marry my husband (what did that process look like?) (4) what bad advice lead many Christian women to grow out of their childbearing years without ever finding someone to marry (5) what good advice I have…
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Hi! I’m Veronique Butterfield. I have a heart for single women in their 30’s, or older, who lead a God-honoring life and desire marriage, yet have no signs of Mr. Right anywhere. I live in Freezeconsin (Wisconsin!) with my huggable husband, along with his Bible commentaries, grammars, and lexicons. I grew up in France (hence my French first name, French accent, and occasional wonky English grammar). My passion: Helping chaste marriage-minded single…
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16 Awesome details about “From Stuck in Singleness to Marrying Mr. Right”
Are you a godly single woman edging toward or beyond the age of 30? If you’re seeing Christian girls, much younger than you, dating, courting, and getting married, and you’re wondering how you can return the gift of singleness too, then this compassionate story is for you. How can a Christian woman who’s not so young find a wonderful husband within 18 months, without compromising her convictions? Everything in Veronique’s courtship subculture told her it couldn’t be…
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